阶前雨是无根雨,心上人是无望人。天上雨是人间雨,天涯人是所念人。所有的繁花纷乱,困扰,不过是皆因心而起,拿起,放下,皆在一念之间,或风生,或水起,过了都是云烟。失恋不是失掉一段爱情,而是你失掉所有关乎未来的构想,亲手拆掉一所在你心中完全完美温暖的房子。我曾以为人生最糟糕的是孤独终老,其实不是,最糟糕的是与让你倍感孤独的人一起终老。I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make